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The Nature and Importance of Family and Closet Religion,
Considered in a Circular Letter from the Baptist Ministers
and Messengers, Assembled at Leicester, May 29, 30 and 31, 1787.

      Maintaining the important Doctrines of three equal Perfons in the Godhead; eternal and perfonal Election; original Sin; particular Redemption; free Juistification by the imputed Righteoufnefs of Chrift; efficacious Grace in Regeneration; the final Perfeverance of the Saints; and the Independency, or congregational Order of the Churches of Chrift inviolably.

By Robert Hall

      To the feveral Churches they reprefent, or have received Letters from, meeting at Codnor, Sutton-Afhfield, Nottingham, Sheepfhead, Leicefter, Sutton-in-the-Elms, Arnfby, Clipftone, Oakham, Gretton, Spalding, Soham, Kettering, Waldgrave, Moulton, Guilfborough, Northampton, Road, Carlton, Olney, Thorn, and St. Alban's.

      Grace be unto you, and Peace from God our Father, and from the Lord Jefus Chrift.

      Dear Brethren!
      WITH gratitude to our indulgent God, we inform you of our being favoured with another annual interview, and with fuch gracious tokens of his prefence as have rendered the feafon in fome degree pleafing and profitable. The letters from the churches were attended to with fuch fenfations as the different fubjects were calculated to promote. While we mourn over the moral defects particularly in fome, we are very thankful that encouraging accounts were tranfmitted to us from moft of the churches. The means of grace are in general well attended, and in various places evidently bleffed. Several churches which were destitute, are now happily provided with minifters and paftors. The bleffing of peace is enjoyed in our refpective congregations as extenfively as we ever remember it to have been. And in the doorines of rich grace and the intereft of true holinefs, there appears a general and cordial union.

      For the beftowment, continuance and increafe of fuch bleffings, we truft you will unite with us in prayer and praife. Confider, dear brethren, that genuine dependance on the Lord is infeparably connetted with a clofe confcientious attendance upon him. It is for the promoting of your faith and joy, which are fo intimately connected with a diligent waiting upon God, in all the means of his appointment, that we once more crave your moft ferious attention to our united epiftle.

      You have been addreffed for a feries of years with great plainnefs of fpeech, on many precious and important branches of religion. Thefe letters have been the refult of our joint concern to promote in you an


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univerfal conformity to the whole will of God; and knowing the tendency of divine truth in the hands of the Holy Spirit to produce fuch conformity, we have attempted in our annual letters to illuftrate, confirm and improve, feveral of the facred truths of the gofpel. In purfuance of the fame end, we shall this year lay before you the nature and importance of family and clofet religion. Laft year we addreffed you upon the authority and fanctification of the Lord's day, which related chiefly to public worfhip; this year we would turn your attention to that which is more private, but of equal importance.

      Religion ought to be the main bufinefs of our lives; and religion in the family and the clofet makes a confiderable part of the chriftian life. It is here, if any where, that the true chriftian will be diftinguifhed from others. While many content themfelves with fuch public exercifes as fall under the eye of the multitude, the language of his heart is, As for me, and my houfe, we will ferve the Lord.

      We are not without painful apprehenfions that thefe duties are not fo generally and uniformly regarded as they ought. Many wholly defpife and totally neglect them, as accounting them unfafhionable and puritanical; and others who more particularly profefs to be the followers of Chrift, though they may not lay them wholly afide, yet, we are afraid, give them but a very negligent and fuperficial attendance. Thefe things wear a melancholy afpect, and muft give pain to every pious heart. But, brethren, we hope better things of you, though we thus fpeak; yet with our hope you will allow us to exercife a godly jealoufy over you. To fay the leaft, you find your temptations, difficulties, and difcouragements in the exercife of thefe duties; a word of caution, direction and encouragement, therefore, cannot be unfeafonable.

      FAMILY RELIGION includes not merely a fingle act of devotion, but extends to the feveral duties which devolve upon us as the heads of fuch collective bodies. Its exercifes might perhaps be rendered more pleafureable and advantageous by confidering its different branches, and fo managing our affairs as to give each branch its proper place. Catechizing and privately inftructing at feafonable opportunities, we prefume, would be but fulfilling the truft we owe to our domeftics. Ignorance, prejudice and pride, are the attendants of human nature; all concur to render inftruction neceffary. Inform them of their condition as fallen creatures, the impoffibility of enjoying God in fuch circumfiances; with the neceffity of a divine change in heart and life; inftruct them alfo in the riches and freenefs of the grace of Chrift, and his fufficiency and fuitablenefs to perfons in their circumftances!

      Reading fome part of the holy fcriptures fhould likewife be an ordinary part of our family worfhip. We with you, brethren, not only to fearch the fcriptures daily for yourfelves, but to read them, or caufe them to be read in your families; and that conftantly and carefully. There is no inftruction like that which is derived from the word of God. It was of old enjoined Ifrael, faying, Ye fhall lay up thefe my words in your heart, and in your foul; - and ye fhall teach them your children, fpeaking of them when thou fitteft in thine houfe, and when thou walkeft by the way, when thou lieft down, and when thou rifeft up. It is recorded to the honour, it fhould feem, of Eunice the mother of Timothy, that from a child he had known the holy fcriptures.*

      At proper feafons it might affift our devotion, and keep up a greater
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* Deuteronomy xi, 18, 19. 2 Timothy iii, 15.


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variety in our worfhip, to fing a few verfes of a pfalm or hymn. Such a practice, where it may comport with family circuftances, and can be conducted with order and regularity, may be of an enlivening tendency; but where it is otherwife, it is better omitted, as it would add neither folemnity nor fweetnefs to our worlhip.+

      At all events attend to family prayer; let not this he omitted on any avoidable account whatever. Let it be regular and conftant; and this, we apprehend, it cannot be, unlefs it be daily. Chrift taught his difciples to pray for fpiritual bleffings as often as they prayed for their daily bread.x On many accounts it is fuitable to begin and end the day with prayer; in the morning to acknowledge God's watchful care through the night, to intreat his prefence and bleffing through the enfuing day; and at evening to adore him for the bounties of the paft day, to bewail our imperfections, plead his divine promifes, and commit all our concerns into his hands. Prayer is the key, which in the morning opens to us the treafures of God's mercy, and in the evening fhuts us up, as it were, under his protection and fafeguard.

      It is difficult to give particular diretlions refpecting the moft proper mode of conducting this fervice. Your circumftances and occupations are fo various, that perhaps no determinate rule could be given to which all families could accede. We can only fay, therefore, in general, brethren, that fuch a feafon fhould be chofen as is leaft liable to interruption; and when all, or moft of your domeftics can attend. Beware efpecially of putting off the fervice too long, left the world engrofs thofe thoughts that fhould be otherwife employed. If the mind is once keenly fet on worldly concerns, it will exceedingly damp and deaden the heart to holy duties. As earth caft upon the fire puts it out; fo the world, when it fpreads over the affections, muft ftrangely damp that holy flame that fhould afcend up to heaven in our facrifices. You know, brethren, it is not eafy to rife under a heavy load; nor to fummon the foul in a moment from the world, to attend upon God wirh becoming folemnity and fpirituality. God requires, and is wortiy of the firft-fruits of our time, attention, and affections. Never let us offer him the lame and the blind in our facrifices; but go when we can wait upon him with moft freedom of fpirit.

      At evening as well as morning prayer, late fervices fhould as much as poffible be avoided. How unfit are we for the worfhip of God when our animal frame is nearly exhaufted, and our fenfes in a fort locked up; with what pleafure can we reflect upon thofe fervices in which the bodies of at leaft fome in the family, even while proftrate before the Lord, have been overcome with drowfinefs!

      If you read a part of God's word, or fing, as well as pray in your families, care fhould be taken that you do not run to an inconvenient length. We apprehend that fome good people have protraCted their prayers far beyond the bounds of prudence; as they not only weary and difguft many of their domeftics, and fo render the fervice irkfome; but likewife go beyond the fervour of their own affections. Hence it is that a difagreeable languor, and unpleafing tautology are generally the attendants of fuch fervices. We wifh you, brethren, to be more particular
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+ We would here recommend a Selection of Hymns lately publifhed by our brother Rippon of London, which is not defigned to fet afide the Pfalms and Hymns of Dr. Watts, which are fo generally ufed and fo juftly efteemed in our churches but to ferve as an Appendix to them, on which account none of his pfalms and hymns are included in this felection, but a great variety of the beft hymns from a number of either author, with many originals never before publifhed.
x Matthew vi. 9-13.


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with refpect to the folemnity and fpirituality of your devotions, than the length to which they fhall be extended. Confider yourfelves as prophets and priefts in your refpective families: - As prophets, give them inftruction, rebuke, exhort, admonifh; be not indifFerent to immoralities in fervants, for if let alone, they may bring your children to ruin. Read the 101ft pfalm upon this fubject; it is an exceilent pfalm upon family government. - As priefts, collect the offerings, the guilt, the miferies, the neceffities of your families, and prefent them before the Lord. When you approach the throne of grace, think with holy Job, It may be, that my fons, or fervants have finned againft the Lord - It may be fome of them never pray for themfelves. Make thofe cafes your own which once were your own! While you have a God to go to, fay with Samuel, God forbid that I fhould fin againft the Lord, in ceafing to pray for you! - While you are thus prefenting the offerings of your families, take ehcouragement from the many great and precious promifes, the purport of all which, is, that God never faid to the feed of Jacob, feek ye my face in vain. Keep your eye alfo upon the blood of iprinkling; never forget your great high-prieft, through whofe inter ceffion all your prayers are accepted, and all Jehovah's promifes fulfilled. Confider yourfelves as prophets and priefts in your refpective families: - As prophets, give them inftruction, rebuke, exhort, admonifh; be not indifferent to immoralities in fervants, for if let alone, they may bring your children to ruin. Read the 101ft pfalm upon this fubject; it is an excellent pfalm upon family government. - As priefts, collect the offerings, the guilt, the miferies, the neceffities of your families, and prefent them before the Lord. When you approach the throne of grace, think with holy Job, It may be, that my fons, or fervants have finned againft the Lord - It may be fome of them never pray for themfelves. Make thofe cafes your own which once were your own! While you have a God to go to, fay with Samuel, God forbid tbat I fhould fin againft the Lord, in ceafing to pray for you! - While you are thus prefenting the offerings of your families, take ehcouragement from the many great and precious promifes, the purport of all which, is, that God never faid to the feed of Jacob, feek ye my face in vain. Keep your eye alfo upon the blood of fprinkling; never forget your great high-prieft, through whofe interceffion all your prayers are accepted, and all Jehovah's promifes fulfilled.

      While we recommend a diligent, regular, and conftant attention to the religion of the family, we wifh you, brethren, not to forget that of the CLOSET. By clofet religion is intended thofe tranfactions which take place between God and our own fouls in private. To this exercife our Lord counfels his difciples, faying, Enter thy clofet, and when thou haft fhut thy door, pray to thy Father who is in fecret, and thy Father who feeth in fecret fhall reward thee openly.* If this is neglected, our fouls can never profper; and furely we would not wifh to watch over our families, as over the vineyard of others, and at the fame time neglect our own.

      The great end of clofet devotion is the exercife of grace in one's own foul, to which end it feems better adapted than the more public devotions of the family. There we are under a kind of neceffity to feek out acceptable words, and to exercile our gifts, feeing what is done is not only for our own profit, but as well for the edification of others; but here we may exprefs our defires even in groans which cannot be uttered. Provided that our fpirits are but reverent, it matters not though the connexicn of words be broken and incoherent. Yes, here we may pray, and paufe, reflect and pray again. There are various perfonal concerns which we cannot exprefs with freedom before any creature; bitterneffes which our own hearts only know, and must know; but here we may pour out our whole foul! We may confefs our brutifh ignorance, without fear of being upbraided; bewail our moft fecret fins without danger of being expofed; in a word, we may carry our burdens, whatever they be, and caft them upon the Lord, and find reft to our fouls.

      Let us, in the next place, point out to you, dear brethren, the importance of the duties, the nature and manner of conducting which we have attempted to explain. Family religion is both ancient and honourable; and is a dury incumbent upon all heads of families, (except fuch as labour under natural inability) and that from the very nature of things. We might challenge the moft irreverent and fneering deift to prove any thing irrational or unworthy of a man in any of thefe facred devotions. Yea, he muft not only take leave of chriftianity, but of rationality and common fenfe ere he can vindicate himfelf in the neglect of them. He may affect
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to laugh at fuch exercifes as the attendants of fanaticifm, the effects of fuperftious zeal, or low prejudices, or as making an oftentatious and needlefs parade; but all this is againft his own confcience, and merely for the purpofe of keeping himfelf in countenance in iniquity. Let him only put off the buffoon and affume the man, and one might afk him a few fuch queftions as the following; - What can be more becoming a dependent slate than to pay our united homage to the author of our being, and the fupreme governor of the world? Can any thing more fignificantly befpeak an ingenuous temper, or adminifter a greater fatisfaction to our moft refined feelings, than the exercifes of penitential devotion? Can there be a more fublime pleafure, or a more advantageous employ, than to contemplate the fource of all excellencies, and unbofom our fouls before him who feels for us, and fays, Caft thy burden upon me? Are no acknowledgements due to the divine Being from us as creatures? Have we no farther need of his protecting care; no more occafion for the bleffings of his goodnefs?

      Perfons of the above defcription, whenever they think proper to introduce the divine Being into their difcourfe, love to fpeak of him merely as the Father of his creatures. We might afk then, is it unworthy of the character of children to prefent themfelves before a parent, to exprefs their wants and commit themfelves to his protection? yea, and if they have offended him, is it a mean thing to acknowledge that offence, and implore forgivenefs? rather, is it not a mean thing, and the mark of a vagabond fpirit, when we have offended God, to fly from him, and try to forget our wretchednefs by wallowing in the mire of fenfual and fordid gratdications? King David, upon his dying bed, gave this charge to his fon Solomon, I go the way of all the earth; - SHEW THYSELF A MAN; - keep the charge of the Lord thy God, to walk in his ways, to keep his ftatutes and his commandments!*

      That avowed libertines fhould neglect thefe duties, however, is no wonder; communion with God would not fuit or confilt with their courfe of life; but that any who profefs to fear God, and to expect falvation by the Lord Jefus Chrift, fhould live in fuch neglect, is ftrange indeed. It feems there have been characters in the world who have made great profeffion of religion, have given conftant attendance at the public worfhip of God, and have appeared co entertain no doubts whatever of the fafety of their own ftate, who neverthelefs have lived in the habitual omiffion of thefe duties; and that under a pretence that they lead to pharifaical pride. We hope, dear brethren, that fuch notions and fuch practices are far from you! It muft be very difficult to account for fuch perfons being full of love to God, and yet to have none for the fouls of their children and dependants; or for their great regard to the gofpel while they are enemiew to the law, which enjoins us to love our neighbour as ourfelves. Befides, who moft refembles the proud pharifee; he whofe religion is merely in public, where he is feen of men, or he who carries his religion home to his family, and his clofet? characlters of the above defcription are not fo much to be reafoned with, as rebuked and fhunned, that they may be afhamed.

      The importance of family and fecret religion appears in various points of light; as it refers to God, ourfelves or others. As it refers to God, if ever we glorify his name to any purpofe, it muft be in domeftic life. Spectators will judge of our religion, not fo much by what we fay abroad as by what we do at home. Even our public conduct will have but little tendency to glorify God, if contradicted by private irregularity. Wife
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men generally make this obfervation, If you would know a man's true character, fay they, fee what he is in fecret, in domeftic life, when the eye of the world is not upon him.

      Farther, its importance appears as it refers to ourfelves. There is not only a clofe connexion between one duty and another, but as well between one bleffing and another. The public worfhip of God can never be properly enjoyed as a privilege, any more than performed as a duty, but in conjunction with family religion; and family religion can never be carried on to any good purpofe, without a clofe walking with God in private. The exercifes of the clofet, in a particular manner, are fubfervient to our fouls profperity. It is here, if at all, that we carry on a kind of commerce with heaven; that we deal with Chrift for gold tried in the fire, that we may be rich, for white raiment that we may be cloathed, and for eye-falve that we may free. If this commerce fail, we fhall indeed be poor, and wretched, and miferable, and blind, and naked!* It was before obferved, that there are a variety of perfonal concerns which we cannot exprefs before any creature; if then we omit clofet exercifes, thofe concerns muft, of courfe, come to an ill iffue. If, for inftance, we have contracted guilt in our confciences, this will wear out of mind by degrees, inftead of being lamented before God, and brought to the Saviour's crofs; and if fo, the matter is not yet done with; God has yet a controverfy with us: - Or if any particular troubie lies upon us, it will wear off in time; but it will leave us worfe than it found us. Troubles are fitly called temptations, they tend to difcover either our graces or corruptions; but we have no reafon to expect a difcovery of the former, except, like Hezekiah, we fpread them before the Lord.

      As the religion of the clofet profits our fouls, and fits us for the duties of the family, fo that of the family fits us for the more pnblic worfhip of God in the church. The one is a fort of preparative for the other. It is that to our fpirits which rain is to the ground for the reception of the feed. The repetition of it alfo, on our return, tends to preferve a favor in our fpirits of what we have been hearing. It is thus, that, as the good ground, we receive the feed of the word, and bring forth fruit with patience.

      Farther, The duties of which we have been fpeaking affect not only ourfelves, but others. Family religion is, generally fpeaking, a bleffing to thofe who are inftructed by it, and to fociety at large. Children are hereby taught to reverence religion; and being taught the good and the right way, are not fo readily drawn afide into pernicious errors, and cannot, at to eafy a rate, indulge themfelves in grofs immoralities. Thefe, to fay the leaft, are the effects of a godly education. On thefe accounts, the community at large have a claim upon parents. A family is the firft fociety, and a feminary to all the reft. The whole commonwealth is made up of fingle perfons in divers relations. Towns, congregations, cities and countries, are all made up out of feveral families. To principle and inftruct them, therefore, is the way to make good magiftrates, good fubjects, good hufbands, good wives, good mafters, good fervants, and good neighbours. Loyalty to our king, and love to our country, cannot be better manifefted than by a clofe attention to family government. On this ground, and nothing fhort of it, we may hope for their future refpectability.

      But we need not bound our expectations here; how many thoufands have received impreffions from their education which have never left them till they have iffued in real converfion. Let us aim not merely at their civilization, but at their falvation.
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continue in a long fucceffion in families; and it is a Well-known fact, that religious families are nurferies for the church. Though no one is born again of blood, any more than of the will of man; and though the children of the godly are intitled to no peculiar privilege that we know of on account of their defcent; yet they enjoy a religious education: and why may we not fuppofe that the number of the truly godly from fuch families, exceeding thofe of others, is owing to the bleffing with which God is pleafed to crown the prayers and inftructions of the parents? It is thus that we account for a fact very nearly refembling it. We ufually fee in thofe towns and villages where the means of grace are fupported, many more fouls converted to God, than in thofe where it is otherwife; but do we thence conclude that thofe favoured places muft be intitled to fome peculiar privileges? rather, do we not impute it to God's gracioufly bleffing the means of his own appointment? If God puts more honour upon one family than others, it is ufually, though not always, upon fuch who are moft eminent in thefe duties. Of Abraham, who was fo peculiarly favoured, and of whom fo much is faid in refpect of his defcendants, it is witneffed, I know him that be will command his children, and his houfehold after him, and they fhall keep the way of the Lord.*

      Though public worfhip fhould be at all events attended to; yet during the tender age of childhood, perhaps it is not fo much from public as from private inftruction that we are to hope for our children's converfion. The public miniftry of the word is feldom at that period of life fo adapted to their capacities as inftructions which are given them on purpofe.- Or, fuppofe the inftructions, warnings, and counfels of the pulpit, fhould be of ufe to them, ftill they need to be feconded by others in private. Let uS intreat you, brethren, as you value the true intereft of the deareft parts of yourfelves, help us in this good work! When death makes breaches in the churches, to your families we look, in hope of feeing the vacancies fupplied! Permit us to repeat the thought, confider your families as the churches nurferies; and fee that the young plantations are not neglected!

      Only view your labours as fucceeded of God for good; think what joy it muft afford to have children and fervants born again in your houfe! With what fatisfaction will you leave the world, when you can leave behind you fucceffors that know and fear the Lord; fucceffors, who like Solomon to David, fhall enter into your defigns, follow your good example, and perhaps far exceed you in piety and ufefulnefs!

      Finally, brethren, hearken to the voice of God! Pray without ceafing - praying always, with ALL PRAYER - Train up a child in the way that he fhould go, and when he is old he will not depart from it - Bring up your children in the nurture and admonition of the Lord - I wil1 pour out my wrath upon the heathen, upon the families that call not upon my name - Bleffed is every one that feareth the Lord; that walketh in his ways. For thou fhalt eat the labour of thine hands; happy fhalt thou be, and it fhall be well with thee. Thy wife fhall be a fruitful vine by the fides of thine houfe; thy children like olive plants round about thy table. Behold thus fhall the man be bleffed that feareth the Lord. The Lord fhall blefs thee out of Zion, and thou fhalt fee the good of Jerufalem all the days of thy life. Yea thou fhalt fee thy children's children, and peace upon Ifrael!

      Dearly beloved brethren, farewell. The God of love and peace be with you.
Signed in behalf of the affociation, by ROBERT HALL, Moderator.
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BREVIATES.

      Tuelday evening we met at the ufual hour. Brother Hall, of Arnfby. was chofen moderator. After tinging and prayer, the letters from the churches were read, minutes taken of their contents, and the opportunity concluded in prayer.

      Wednefday morning, between fix and feven, met for prayer - About ten the public meeting began, with finging and prayer as ufual; after which a fhort account was given of the nature and defign of the affociation - Brother Mills, of Sheepfhead, then preached from 2 Thef iii. 5. And the Lord direct your hearts into the love of God, and into the patient waiting for Chrift. Brother Fletcher prayed, and brother Gill, of St. Alban's, preached from 2 Tim. ii. 19. Neverthelefs, the fouudation of God ftandeth fure, having this feal, the Lord knoweth them that are his: and let every one that nameth the name of Chrift, depart from iniquity . Brother Sutcliff, of Olney, concluded in p1ayer. - At fix in the evening met again. Brother Fawkner, of Thorn, prayed, and brother Ryland, jun. preached from Gal. iii. 21. Is the law then againft the promife of God? God forbid. For if there had been a law given which could have given life, verily righteoufnefs fhould have been by the law. Brother Spencer concluded in prayer.

      Thurfday morning we met again for prayer, and communicating our experience as minifters, fettling the bufinefs of the affociation fund, with fome other things. The fubftance of the letter, drawn up by brother Hopper, was prefented, and ordered to be printed. About Twelve the affociation was concluded in prayer by the moderator.

State of the churches fince the laft affociation.
     (Upon a profeffion of faith -  - 79
 Added    (By letters of recommendation -  18
          (Reftored after exclufion  - -    2  - 
	                                 Total 99
	 

(By exclufion - - 35 Diminifhed (By death - - 5 (By difmiffion to other churches * - 19 Total 55

Increafe 44 * Of thefe, ten were embedied at Gretton, and are all included in the former article of "Added by letter, &c."

      Letters were received from the church at Moulton, and Gretton, in Northamptonfhire, and Thorn, in Bedfordfhire, requefting admiffion into the affociation, which was cheerfully granted.

      Agreed, 1. That the thanks of this affociation be given to the Rev. Dr. Stenner, for his judicious fermons on the parable of the fower.

      2. That as we are informed of an intended application to parliament for an abolition of the flave trade, we will ufe all lawful means for the promoting of fo juft and humane a defign.

      3. That our brother Ryland, jun. be requefted to print his fermon delivered on Wednefday evening.

      4. That the monthly prayer-meetings, for the revival of religion, be continued.

      The next affociation to be at Kettering, on Wednefday, May 28th, 1788, being a fortnight after Whitfuntide. Brother Ryland and brother Sutcliff to preach; in cafe of failure, brother Hall. - Put up at the White-Hart.

FINIS.

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